How to Tell When HoodedCobrastein is Screwing with Your Yahoo! Group Posts: X-eGroups-Edited-By: crocobra2411@…

Mr. Bernstein doesn’t like it when users don’t obey him. He’s a man-child, around 26 years old give or take, and he’s full of rage. Keep in mind, this is a guy that is not only half Jewish, but fucked a Jewish girl whose father is a Rabbi. He’s done everything the Joy of Satan would have his head for. His only outlet is to post rambling hate speeches that he calls “sermons” and to edit user posts when he feels they don’t fly with him.

View the source. This is what you’ll see when hooded_stickyhands screws with user posts to make them look bad. Most Jos members are teenagers, so they don’t even think for a second that anyone would bother to mess with posts. Hoody is also responsible for those “Yahoo! glitches” — those whoospies he claims are Yahoo’s Jew fault for posts not going through. That’s just him sitting there with one hand in his Hanes underwear pocket and the other editing ignorant and naive user posts.

X-eGroups-Edited-By: crocobra2411@…

This is an example of an edited post:

I Have The Truth
Message 10 of 15 , Nov 2, 2016

I wish Joy of Satan accepted jews but you do not. So I am angry that I don’t feel welcomed here…Just can’t stand the Nazism. Also don’t call him ‘S-t-n’. His name is Enki. Satan sounds a bit scary. Enkiism at least accept jews like the CoS and all other organizations. Bye then. I will go join them instead and not this bigoted place.

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Click “View Source” and you see what he’s done. You won’t see this on regular posts, because he doesn’t edit them. Pretty easy to understand, right? No lies, no mysteries, just plain outright sneaky sabotage by the second rat of JoS.

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Another example of edited content to dupe JoS members into thinking their fellow members have posted things they have not:
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171728  Lol, to the JoS, I tried

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  • richardlesterhailsatan11
    Nov 9, 2016
    I created this thoughform by my own drug use and foolishness and now I blame Satan for it.
    I am very weak and a disgusting person, and i have been doing meth. meth caused me psychosis and now after 7 years of being supposedly dedicated, i blame Satan for supposedly sticking a thoughform on me. Been spamming the group for months. I always blame shift to Satan and the gods and I have attacked the JoS without reasons in the past but blaming them for my own weakness and inferiority. I also think I am jewish. What to do?
X-Originating-IP: 209.159.213.14
X-Yahoo-Post-IP: 209.159.213.14
X-Original-Reply-To: richardlesterhailsatan11@…
Subject: Lol, to the JoS, I tried
X-Yahoo-Group-Post: member; u=547182492; y=j0fTdV6uH-l0ZX9m8E9t3MijVOj831oHUG3IQfk_DcwF8dsqocR0yzcNRmO1C73pOvEY
X-Yahoo-Profile: richardlesterhailsatan11
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X-Original-From: richardlesterhailsatan11@…
Reply-To: richardlesterhailsatan11@…
X-Original-Return-Path: richardlesterhailsatan11@…
To: JoyofSatan666@yahoogroups.com
X-Yahoo-Newman-Property: groups-system
X-Yahoo-Newman-Id: groups-system
X-eGroups-Approved-By: crocobra2411 via web; 09 Nov 2016 14:21:36 -0000
From: richardlesterhailsatan11@…

The only nutcase here is HoodedCobra, or as we like to lovingly call him, hoodedpenileimplant666 or UncircumcisedTrouserSnake999, though we highly doubt the young man-child is unsnipped. He’s snipped for sure, with a last name such as Bernstein and given the area he lived in 7 years ago (Jews, Jews and more Jews).

There are so many examples of this immature child’s little game played upon unsuspecting users in the Yahoo! Groups, but no more. Word is out, and he will now have to edit regular posts, all the posts or no posts in order to try to make himself appear as if this is all a ruse…and folks, it’s not. The truth sucks, doesn’t it, for those in the Joy of Satan, that is. HoodedHalfJewishGardenSnake666 gets off by editing user comments. Fact.

UPDATE: I have to change the sentence above which states “The only nutcase here is HoodedCobra…” because Richard Lester, aka richardlesterhailsatan11 aka “Joy of Satan Testimonial” on YouTube is apparently psychotic, suffering from some serious paranoid delusions and not at all bashful about sharing his paranoia on YouTube. He thinks everyone is a Jew and that he’s got a thoughform stuck on him.
He’s going to have a lot more to worry about than a thought form.
He has stepped in a pile of shit.

170715  To the JoS ministry

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  • richardlesterhailsatan11
    Oct 19, 2016

    I am a nutcase and I have been blaming others for it. I want forgiveness.

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X-Original-From: richardlesterhailsatan11@…
Reply-To: richardlesterhailsatan11@…
X-Original-Return-Path: richardlesterhailsatan11@…
To: JoyofSatan666@yahoogroups.com
X-Yahoo-Newman-Property: groups-system
X-Yahoo-Newman-Id: groups-system
X-eGroups-Approved-By: crocobra2411 via web; 19 Oct 2016 17:26:56 -0000
From: richardlesterhailsatan11@…

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There you go, folks.

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This is Richard “My Jesus Christ UFO Testimonials” YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCcn17wcIfEDBctRuSirxvEg/videos
He is most likely a teenager, as you will be able to tell from his voice and his behavior. In one video he starts talking, then stops to yell at what sounds like his mom. He flips out on a family member who steps into his room and interrupts his little video-making time and he yells at them, with no respect all. He deserves an ass-whooping, or possibly to get the fuck out of the house and try living on his own! Anyway, let’s move on. Richie NutsUpstairs thinks Exposing the Joy of Satan is “working with the JoS. Yes you didn’t read that wrong, this little deluded kid thinks I would have anything to do with anyone from the JoS in any way, shape or form AND he thinks we have some connection. Laugh and catch your breath.
Anyone who knows the EtJOS knows it began on https://hungariancultistnazis.wordpress.com/ and knows there is no connection or collaboration with that cult of Nazis. We do not collaborate with brainwashed cult members that don’t grasp reality. Richard doesn’t grasp reality either. And neither does HoodedBernstein, not if he needs to edit user posts and still has yet to admit he did indeed sleep with a full-blooded Jew and enjoy it, and her father, a Rabbi, knows about it.
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Maxine Dietrich “IP Addresses and Hackers – Do not Worry.”

 

IP Addresses and Hackers – Do not Worry.

Nikki Kulas Enemy?? What "enemy" is MaxiPad talking about??  Delusional bitch! Like · Reply · January 22 at 12:33am Exposing the JOY of SATAN Exposing the JOY of SATAN And remember, this was 2011 from what I just saw! ~^.^~ Like · Reply · January 22 at 1:36am Nikki Kulas Nikki Kulas I know lol. MaxiPad still believes in the "enemy" to this day LOL!  Like · Reply · January 22 at 1:37am Exposing the JOY of SATAN Exposing the JOY of SATAN The enemy..."VERY JEWISH." LOL The funny thing is that other "HP" saying you can’t get anyone’s real IP when a user posts to Yahoo groups. Clearly the person is clueless about the source code, which is shown in these screenshots. Yes, there is the routing IP through Yahoo, but there is the originating IP and that one bit Andrea in the ass. I passed this to another admin days ago...we thought it was pretty funny stuff. Like · Reply · January 22 at 1:44am Nikki Kulas Nikki Kulas Yeah I noticed that. Made me laugh!  Like · Reply · January 22 at 1:54am Suzanne Hayes Write a reply... Choose File Chad Burgess Chad Burgess "Satanist Benjamin Franklin" The same Benjamin Franklin who said this; "I had been religiously educated as a Presbyterian; and tho' some of the dogmas of that persuasion, such as the eternal decrees of God, election, reprobation, etc., appeared to me unintelligible, others doubtful, and I early absented myself from the public assemblies of the sect, Sunday being my studying day, I never was without religious principles. I never doubted, for instance, the existence of the Deity; that he made the world, and govern'd it by his Providence; that the most acceptable service of God was the doing good to man; that our souls are immortal; and that all crime will be punished, and virtue rewarded, either here or hereafter."  At least she got the right person for the quote, even if the quote is butchered. Like · Reply · 2 · January 22 at 9:16pm

Nikki Kulas: Enemy?? What “enemy” is MaxiPad talking about?? Delusional bitch!

Exposing the JOY of SATAN: And remember, this was 2011 from what I just saw!
~^.^~

Nikki Kulas: I know lol. MaxiPad still believes in the “enemy” to this day LOL!

Exposing the JOY of SATAN: The enemy…”VERY JEWISH.” LOL
The funny thing is that other “HP” saying you can’t get anyone’s real IP when a user posts to Yahoo groups. Clearly the person is clueless about the source code, which is shown in these screenshots. Yes, there is the routing IP through Yahoo, but there is the originating IP and that one bit Andrea in the ass. I passed this to another admin days ago…we thought it was pretty funny stuff.

Nikki Kulas: Yeah I noticed that. Made me laugh!

Chad Burgess: “Satanist Benjamin Franklin” The same Benjamin Franklin who said this; “I had been religiously educated as a Presbyterian; and tho’ some of the dogmas of that persuasion, such as the eternal decrees of God, election, reprobation, etc., appeared to me unintelligible, others doubtful, and I early absented myself from the public assemblies of the sect, Sunday being my studying day, I never was without religious principles. I never doubted, for instance, the existence of the Deity; that he made the world, and govern’d it by his Providence; that the most acceptable service of God was the doing good to man; that our souls are immortal; and that all crime will be punished, and virtue rewarded, either here or hereafter.”
At least she got the right person for the quote, even if the quote is butchered.

2011

2011

IP Addresses. Do not worry. Even Mad Max forgets now and then.

IP Addresses. Do not worry. Even Mad Max forgets now and then. LOL

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Threatened with being “cursed” by the Joy of Satan members? Their sickly, negative energy clouding up your life and aura? Blast it away with a very powerful Ritual that can be done anywhere, anytime, by anyone..

Threatened with being “cursed” by the Joy of Satan members? Their sickly, negative energy clouding up your life and aura? Blast it away with a very powerful Ritual that can be done anywhere, any time, by anyone.. The Lesser Banishing Ritual of the Pentagram (LBRP). The LBRP calls upon Yahweh’s powerful Arch-Angels, Michael, Gabriel, Raphael and Auriel to cleanse the area around you as well as within you.

If you have any level of belief that Yahweh (The Christian God) can overpower the demons and forces of Hell, then this Ritual will be enhanced significantly. For those who do not believe the Christian God has any power, there is a Satanic Version AFTER this one, called the Lesser Absorbing Ritual of the Pentagram of Set (LARPS). Fight Fire with Fire, and call upon the Demonic Gods and Lords of Hell to cleanse the negative energy created by the false satanists… Pronunciation guides in parenthesizes = ( ) .

LBRP:
Take a steel dagger in the right hand (or use the index finger). Face EAST.

Perform the Kabbalistic Cross as follows:
Imagine, at the first word mentioned, a brilliant white light descending from above.

Touch the forehead and vibrate ATEH (Ah-Tah)
Imagine that same brilliant white light form a 6 inch diameter sphere just above the crown of your head.

Touch the middle of the solar plexus and vibrate MALKUTH (Mahl-kooth)
Imagine a shaft of light descending from the Crown Sphere and descend to the feet where another 6 inch sphere expands just under your feet.

Touch the right shoulder and vibrate VE-GEVURAH (Vay-Gay-VooRah)
Imagine a 6 inch sphere of brilliant white light appear just next to the right shoulder.

Touch the left shoulder and vibrate VE-GEDULAH (Vay-Gay-DooLah)
Imagine a shaft of light emerge from the right Sphere and cross your breast to expand and form another Sphere at your left shoulder.

Clasp the hands before you and vibrate LE-OLAHM (Lay-OhLom)
At this point imagine clearly the cross of light as it extends through your body.

Hands as before, with the dagger between fingers, point up, vibrate AMEN

A Banishing Earth Pentagram is just a 5-pointed star (no circle) that has a Single point UP and it starts at your lower left, draw the star ending where you began. (See the pictures)

Draw, in the air facing EAST, a banishing Earth Pentagram , and bringing the point of the dagger to the center of the Pentagram, vibrate the Name Y H V H (pronounced YAHD HEY VAU HEY)

Imagine that your voice carries forward to the LIMITS of the UNIVERSE.

Without moving the dagger in any other direction, trace a semicircle before you as you turn toward the SOUTH. Again trace the Pentagram, bring the dagger to the center of it, and vibrate the Name ADNI, (pronounced AH-DOH-NEYE)

Again, trace the semicircle with the dagger to the WEST, trace the Pentagram, bringing the dagger to the center, and vibrate the Name AHIH, (pronounced EH-YEH)

Then, turn towards the NORTH, while tracing the circle, trace the Pentagram, bring the point of the dagger to the center and vibrate the Name AGLA, (pronounced either AH-GAH-LAH)

Return to the EAST, completing tracing the circle of brilliant white Light, bringing the dagger point to the center of the EAST Pentagram.

Extend the arms in the form of a cross, say: BEFORE ME (then vibrate) RAPHAEL (pronounced RAH-PHYE-EHL)
Imagine a scintillating brilliant white Archangel in front of you and facing you. In his/her right hand is a magical Sword held with the point upright. The background is a pale, pure, bright yellow. Cherubs can be imagined near the Archangel. Imagine a gentle, refreshing breeze, cleansing and purifying the air.

Then, say: BEHIND ME (then vibrate) GABRIEL (pronounced GAH-BREE-EHL)
Imagine a scintillating brilliant white Archangel behind you and facing you, holding in their right hand an exquisite silver Chalice. He/she is standing on a Cerulean-blue ocean and dolphins or mermaids are nearby. Imagine feeling the mist and cool spray of the ocean breeze.

Then, say: AT MY RIGHT HAND (then vibrate) MICHAEL (pronounced MEE-KAI-EHL)
Imagine a scintillating brilliant white Archangel at your right, facing you, and holding in their right hand a transparent scarlet red Wand with a scintillate pure diamond top. Waves of scarlet, red-orange and orange fire in the background. Also, SEKHMET, with a scarlet disk above her head, emerald green Uraeus, scarlet dress from just below breasts, tight-fitting, down to her ankles, is in the flames. She holds, in her left hand, a scarlet-red lotus wand. In her right hand, she holds an emerald-green ankh. Small black salamanders can be seen moving among the flames. Imagine you feel the heat and power emanating from the SOUTH.

Then, say: AT MY LEFT HAND (then vibrate) AURIEL (pronounced AWE-REE-EHL)
Imagine a scintillating brilliant white Archangel at your left, facing you, and holding between their hands a Disk with a scintillating white Pentagram in the center. The ground is russet-brown, the leaves of the trees are olive-green, there are black shadows from the trees in a number of places, and the light is citrine (light yellow-green.) Feel the solidity of the Earth, and imagine the odor of the leaves and muskiness of the ground.

Now, say: ABOUT ME FLAMES THE PENTAGRAMS, AND IN THE COLUMN SHINES THE SIX-RAYED STAR.
Imagine the complete circle of brilliant white light at whose quadrants are the 4 Pentagrams. At the center is the Kabbalistic Cross of Light extended through one’s body.

LARPS:
1) Visualize your shadow as it extends out from your feet by the candle source.
Concentrate and see it as it expands and connects with the surrounding darkness. Imagine it seeping into the cracks in the floor and walls, melding down through the floor below, through the Underworld to the Earth’s core.
2) Floating above, see a black pulsing sphere. Imagine its eight rays of possibilities shooting out in all directions, connecting with all that surrounds you. Point at it with your magickal dagger (or use your index finger.) and then bring it down touching it to your third eye chakra. Feel it ooze into you, saturating your vessel with chaotic ebon.
SAY – “I am thee!”
3) Bring the blade down to your pelvis. (MEN – Point the blade outward and up like an erect penis. WOMEN – Press the handle to your pelvis bone, with the blade resting against you. Yes this is important)
SAY – “I live!”
4) Extend your right arm out to your side, holding the blade in your fist. The edge should point up at the sky.
SAY – “As Above…”
5) Extend your left arm out to the side with the edge pointing down.
SAY – “So Below.”
6) Cross both arms across your chest with the blade in the left hand, in an “x” with closed fists.
SAY – ” Xeper and Remanifest. So it is done” (Xeper is pronounced Keffer”)
Formulation of the Inverted Pentagram
1) Begin in the South. Carve an inverted pentagram into the air ahead of you. (5-pointed star single point DOWN, no circle, Start in the upper LEFT down to center middle – See Picture)
Imagine it flaming red. Begin at the bottom and move up and to the left.
VIBRATE – “Xepera.” (Keffer-ah)
2) Move to the East… REPEAT
VIBRATE – “Xeper.” (Keffer)
3) Move to the North… REPEAT
VIBRATE – ” Xeperu.” (Keffer-roo)
4) Move to the West. REPEAT.
VIBRATE – ” I have come into being….”
Evocation of the Demonic Gods
1.) Standing in the center of the ritual space. Imagine a breeze blowing in and filling the area as
though you are a magnet to the forces of the Universe. Feel them pouring in, causing a static electrical charge in the air.
2.) Visualize a star falling from the skies. Landing nearby you see a figure of a man with a goat’s head, holding a black sword, readied.
SAY – “Before me… AZAZEL.” (Ah-Zay-Zell)
3.) Visualize a man with the head of a cat vaporizing into the space behind you. You can feel his breath on the back of your neck.
SAY – “Behind me… BEELZEBUB.” Bee-Ehl-Zeh-Boob)
4.) Visualize the ground opening up into a bottomless pit. Out jumps a great fierce wolf gnashing it’s fangs.
SAY – “On my left… ABBADON.” (Ah-Bah-Dawn)
5.) A gentle being steps into view. (His looks are deceiving.) He is the beautiful angel of hostility.
SAY – “On my right… BELIAL.” (Bee-Lee-AhL)
6.) Throw your arms in the air with furious abandon!
SAY – “About me flames the pentagram of Lucifer. Prince of Darkness!”
7.) Wrap your arms around yourself in an embrace.
SAY – “Within me burns the Black Flame of Set!

 

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Pszichopata, szociopata, antiszociális személyiségzavar Kiss A Nádia (Nadia Anett Kiss — Veronika Hompo) Pt.1

 

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2013.03.04. 20:20 keltezéssel, Anett Nadia Kiss írta:”> te nagyon aljas, pszichopata vadbarom !
> téged kényszergyógykezelésre kellene küldeni !
> teljes homloklebenyirtás az ilyen velejéig rohadt, mocskos patkánynak, mint te !
> te közveszélyes vagy…. nem is értem, hogy fordulhatott elő, hogy a gyerekeidet
> te nevelheted ???
> csakis úgy, hogy a volt nejed még nálad is elmeroggyantabb volt ….
> szent szar !
> minden beteg kommentedről screen shot készült, ne aggódj …. :)
> aki lelkileg és fizikailag bántalmazza a gyermekeit, nálunk azt a
> szülőt kiskorú bántalmazásáért elítélik és elveszik a gyermekek
> felügyeleti jogát.
> juj, de nagyon beteg vagy ! komolyan nem tudom, hogy sírjak vagy röhögjek….
> gondozásba kellene vetetni a gyermekeidet ….
> azt hiszem, beszélünk is ottani gyámügyisekkel és elmeszakértővel …..
> kíváncsi vagyok a falubeliek, az ismerőseid miket fognak rólad mesélni …
> egyszerűen nem hiszem el, hogy téged még nem látott szakorvos ……
> szegény gyerekek ! :(
>
>
>
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Szegény tollseprű-szárnyú, szöszi kicsi s édes állatvédő és apa-gyűlölő Nádia további fenyegetései:Sohasem rágalmaztalak. Amit írtam rólad, hogy láttam és olvastam, amikor is te
azt tanácsoltad egy anyukának, hogy jól verje el a nehezen kezelhető gyerekét,
mert téged is vert a mostoha apád, s ezzel “nevelt” belőled “embert” –
nos, ez nem rágalom,
hiszen te magad írtad le ezt nyilvánosan korábban.
Levéltitkot sem sértettem, mert te ezt nagy nyilvánosság előtt írtad,
tanácsoltad, nem pedig
egy nekem szóló privát leveledben olvastam ezt a történetet rólad.Nem számít, mit írtam tegnap gmail-ben privát levélben neked, mert amit írtam,
azt csak két ember láthatta, te és én. Te magad hoztad nyilvánosságra, nem én.
A rágalmazás részemről tehát azért nem valósult meg, mert nem
valótlant állítottam
rólad a privát levelemben, hanem olyan valamit, amit te magad korábban meséltél,
írtál le nagy nyilvánosság előtt.
A személyiségi jogaid pedig azért nem sérültek általam, mert az üzenetemet én
neked címezve, privát üzenetben küldtem el, azt éppen hogy te vitted
nyilvánosság eléDe látom, nem vagy tisztában a rágalmazás, a becsületsértés és a személyi jogok
sérelme jelentésekkel, s hogy azok mikor valósulnak meg, ezért javaslom, keress
fel egy erre szakosodott védőügyvédet.
Nekem remek ügyvédeim vannak. Ezt tapasztalni fogod
Mivel több helyen, több szempontból is súlyosan sérültek a személyiségi jogaim
és az engem gúnyoló, becsmérlő tartalmat nem távolítottad el Facebook
oldaladról,
sem a fórum területről, még azután sem, hogy írásban felhívtam a figyelmedet
a jogkövető magatartásra, ezért mai nappal ügyvédem tanácsára
magánvádindítványra
bíróságon keresetet nyújtok be ellened.

Minden további megkeresésedet zaklatásnak tekintem, ezért ez ügyben is megteszem
a megfelelő jogi lépéseket nyugalmam érdekében, s ha szükséges,
bűnügyi hatóságnál
is feljelentelek zaklatásért.
Tehát, ha mégegyszer felveszed velem a kapcsolatot bármilyen módon, a
polgári per mellé
egy bűnügyi pert is kereshetsz magadnak, mivel a zaklatás ma már
közvádra üldözendő bűncselekmény, nem holmi szabálysértés.

Tisztelettel:

Kiss A. Nadia

Kozma Szilárd <kozmaszilard@gmail.com> írta, 2013.03.04.:
> Miért nem gondolkoztál, amikor ezeket a minősíthetetlen sértéseidet és a
> személyem elleni rágalmaidat és fenyegetéseidet le írtad?! Kérj
> nyilvánosan bocsánatot a Facebokon, amelyben a mélységes megbánásodról
> biztosítasz, valamint arról, hogy soha sehol le nem írod többé a
> nevemet, illetve még csak célzást sem teszel a személyemre, és akkor le
> veszem. Addig nem.
>
> 2013.03.04. 21:46 keltezéssel, Anett Nadia Kiss írta:
>> Amennyiben nem távolítod el a privátban írt üzenetemet a fórum oldalról
>> és a facebook oldaladról, vagy akár csak a nevemet meglátom bárhol tőled,
>> magánvádindítványra bíróságon polgári pert kezdeményezek veled
>> szemben, mivel
>> sérültek a személyiségi jogaim.
>>
>> Kiss Nadia
>>
>>
>>
>> 2013. március 4. 19:20 Anett Nadia Kiss írta,
>> <nadia.anett.kiss@gmail.com <mailto:nadia.anett.kiss@gmail.com>>:
>>
>> te nagyon aljas, pszichopata vadbarom !
>> téged kényszergyógykezelésre kellene küldeni !
>> teljes homloklebenyirtás az ilyen velejéig rohadt, mocskos
>> patkánynak, mint te !
>> te közveszélyes vagy…. nem is értem, hogy fordulhatott elő, hogy
>> a gyerekeidet
>> te nevelheted ???
>> csakis úgy, hogy a volt nejed még nálad is elmeroggyantabb volt ….
>> szent szar !
>> minden beteg kommentedről screen shot készült, ne aggódj ….
>> aki lelkileg és fizikailag bántalmazza a gyermekeit, nálunk azt a
>> szülőt kiskorú bántalmazásáért elítélik és elveszik a gyermekek
>> felügyeleti jogát.
>> juj, de nagyon beteg vagy ! komolyan nem tudom, hogy sírjak vagy
>> röhögjek….
>> gondozásba kellene vetetni a gyermekeidet ….
>> azt hiszem, beszélünk is ottani gyámügyisekkel és elmeszakértővel
>> …..
>> kíváncsi vagyok a falubeliek, az ismerőseid miket fognak rólad
>> mesélni …
>> egyszerűen nem hiszem el, hogy téged még nem látott szakorvos ……

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Én kíváncsian várom, hogy miután a kismama klub egyik főamazonja minket – többünket – Logosz-író metafizikusokat le ősemberezett, és nem tudom még milyen fölényesen gúnyos sértésekkel illetett minket, és annak nyilvánosságra hozása után is a levél tulajdonosa hasonlóan fenyegetőzött végül nem akart bíróságra menni, hogy ott a trágár levelében kirügyező (de a nyilvánosság előtt hatványozottabban is bűzölgő-rothadó gyümölcsként megjelenő) személyiségi jogát megvédje. Ez a hölgyike éretlenebb, tapasztalatlanabb lévén talán szükségét érzi, hogy megtapasztalja, amikor egy bíróság nyilvánossága előtt kerül felolvasásra a kedvesen figyelmeztető, nőiesen-melegszívűen fogalmazott gyermekvédelmező sorokat tartalmazó levele.
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Figyeljük csak meg a tornász nevű, vérszomjas szöszi logikáját:”A rágalmazás részemről tehát azért nem valósult meg, mert nem
valótlant állítottam
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– De, sajnos, nincs tudomásom arról, hogy ezeket én meséltem (vallottam!) volna magamról:”2013.03.04. 20:20 keltezéssel, Anett Nadia Kiss írta:
> te nagyon aljas, pszichopata vadbarom !
> téged kényszergyógykezelésre kellene küldeni !
> teljes homloklebenyirtás az ilyen velejéig rohadt, mocskos patkánynak, mint te !
> te közveszélyes vagy…. nem is értem, hogy fordulhatott elő, hogy a gyerekeidet
> te nevelheted ???
> csakis úgy, hogy a volt nejed még nálad is elmeroggyantabb volt ….
> szent szar !”Ráadásul, azt a tudományos megállapítását, ami szerint pszichopata vagyok, magánlevélben is meg írta Violának. – Több helyen le írtam már azt, hogy attól, hogy valaki át tér vegetáriánus táplálkozásra, karmája, vagyis az annak megfelelő gyilkos ösztönei, a személyiségi zavarai, a hazudozásra, gyűlöletre, bosszúállásra való hajlamai még meg maradnak! Hát a Kiss A Nadia nevű amazon a legjobb példa erre. Mármint, hogy a ragadozói várszomj meg marad az emberben akkor is, ha nem eszik húst. Azzal a különbséggel, hogy attól kezdve nem állatokra, hanem emberekre szeret vadászni. Például a szerinte korrupt törvénybírókat “mind a Dunába lövetni.” – lásd az amazon saját Facebok oldalát.

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Az embervérreszomjas vegán Amazon, Kiss Nadia Anett privát ismerkedésevelem, miutánkedvelgette a hivatkozásaimat afacebook-on:Nadia A. Kissszia

ha nem vagyok nagyon tolakodó, megkérdezhetem, milyen
az eredeti hajszíned ?
mert a fotókon úgy látni, mintha teljesen ősz lenne.
szándékosan festetted be, vagy természetesen ősz ?
… illetve némely fotón szőkének látszik, aztán meg olyan
hamvasnak, majd teljesen ősznek …
csak kíváncsi vagyok

Nadia

17:12
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Kedves Nadia! Természetesen nagyon ősz vagyok.

17:23
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de a korábbi fotókon, amikor még a babát vártad, szőke
voltál …
a Szilárd mellett őszültél meg így hirtelen, ugye ?

17:44
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Nem tudom, hogy valóban az a kedves arcú, helyes nő válaszolt-e itt most
nekem, akit a videókban láttam, de ha igen, akkor menekülj el
ettől a súlyos pszichopata és szociopata embertől, amíg nem késő …

minden jót neked és a kislányodnak !

18:02
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Kedves pofátlan internet-huszár! Ön nem is tudja, hogy mennyivel közelebb van a pszichopatasághoz, mint Kozma Szilárd. Miért? 1. fotónak egy a lábaközét majdnem mutogató nőről tesz ki képet, bizonyára a neve sem igazi, ahogy a képen sem Ön van. Néhány napos facebook ismeretség után engem gyerekkori becenevemmel provokál, amiért különbséget tudok tenni mszp és fidesz között. Szép álmokat, csipkerózsika…

18:07
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Te nem is Violetta vagy …
Nem lehetsz a szép, kedves nő …
Ő szerintem sosem beszélne így …

A profilfotóim közt van több kép is rólam. Mindegyiken én vagyok.
És a nevem is az én nevem.

szia

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A privát üzengetés óta rájöttem, hogy a név igaz, és hogy tényleg egy fiatalka szöszi tartozik a névhez, dehogy több kép is lenne róla a facebook-on a magaslatról, kicsi fodros szoknyában majdnem a bugyiját megmutató profilképen kívül azt nem láttam egyáltalán… ezt csak mellékesen megjegyzem. Hát, ezek a vérmes mai fiatalok, akiket soha nem pofoztak, de a halálbüntetést mindenképp visszaállítanák, mint Nadia, eléggé meg fognak lepődni, hogyha a vágyuk megvalósul és ők is hamar a börtönben találják magukat. Hiszen túlcsordulnak a vérszomjas agressziótól a megnyilvánulásaik. Szent szűz Nadia is teletűzdelte a facebook profilját véresre kínzott állatok fotójával, hiába na, hát a pszichológusok azt javasolhatták neki is, hogy a kegyetlen agresszióját jó cél érdekében kiélheti. De kutyából nem lesz szalonna, végülis így is emberek halálát kívánja, hiába nézeget annyi leölt állatról képet, nem elégíti ki….
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Általánosságban azt mondhatjuk, hogy az ilyen személyiségzavar ban szenvedő ember nem érez. Nem érez megbánást, bűntudatot vagy lelkiismeret furdalást a tettei miatt, sokszor elhárítja magáról a felelősséget mondván, az áldozata megérdemelte, amit kapott. Nem érez empátiát, nem tud együtt érezni másokkal, ezért gyakran tapintatlan, lenéző és érzéketlen más emberekkel szemben. A viselkedése sokszor távolságtartó, hideg. Noha mindig tudja, mit kell mondani, de a szavai mögött kevés a meggyőződés és a valós érzelem.

 

Másik jellemzője ennek az embertípusnak, hogy nem szorong. Mivel csak önös érdekeik vezérlik őket, ezért nem riadnak vissza a hazudozástól, álnévhasználattól, csalástól, mások becsapásától sem. Kölcsönöket vesznek fel, melyeket soha nem fizetnek vissza, a munkahelyüket igen gyakran váltogatják. Viselkedésük sokszor feszült, felelőtlen, kiszámíthatatlan, alkalmanként a saját magukra veszélyes cselekedetektől sem riadnak vissza. Nem képesek felismerni annak a következményeit, ha bűncselekményen kapják őket, sok esetben visszaesőként kerülnek az igazságszolgáltatás elé.

 

Becslések szerint a népesség 1%-a, azaz minden 100. ember szenved antiszociális személyiségzavarban. A kóros állapot kialakulásáért elsősorban örökletes tényezők tehetők felelőssé, csak kisebb szerep jut a környezeti hatásoknak. Kutatások azt mutatják, hogy az agyi központok közül az érzelmek kialakításáért felelős amigdala és a döntéshozatalban, illetve a viselkedés szabályozásában szerepet játszó prefrontális kortex érintett leginkább. Agresszív viselkedés esetén az említett központok és a környező struktúrák közti kapcsolat sérülése mutatható ki.

Az antiszociális személyiségzavar jelen pillanatban nem gyógyítható. Megoldást jelenthet a pszichoterápia a társadalomba való beilleszkedés segítésében, de az elért eredmények nem tartósak.

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Kedves Szilárd,

Mivel valószínűleg komolytalannak tartaná a felkeresésem,
ezért csak röviden zavarnám, de azt nagyon megköszönném, ha röviden
válaszolna.

kiss-a-nadia-az-allatvedelem-harcos-amazonja-t562.html

Ez az elmebajos nőszemély, aki Önnek támadt a Neten.
Nálunk is megvetette a kis undorító csápjait:

http://pirulapublic.hungarianforum.com/ … ki-ketszer

most épp “Luca” néven
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Nos a két személy biztosan azonos, mert:

https://hungariancultistnazis.wordpress … ika-hompo/

https://hungariancultistnazis.wordpress … olcs-mate/

Mert túl sok az egyezés, illetve egy másik fórummal egyeztetve az ip
címek is passzolnak.
Az írásjegyei, pedig több helyen is felismerhetőek. A provokatív
módszerei szinte ugyanazok.
Illetve néhol már fekete listán is szerepel a hölgyemény.

Egyébként engem is feljelentéssel fenyegetett többször is.
Nagyon hasonlít az ügyünk a hölgyeménnyel.

———————————————-

A két kérdésem az lenne:

Tudja, hogy ki ez a hölgy?

a másik:

Attól függetlenül, hogy tudja e. Mennyire kell komolyan venni a
hölgyeményt? Lett abból valami, ami az ön esetében történt?

Megtisztelő válaszát köszönöm szépen.

Üdv:
Kowalski

T. Kovalszky

A patália, amit Nadia rendezett nálam kismiska volt ahhoz képest, hogy a másik feminista: Gerle Éva folytatott hónapokon át.

Asztrológusi tanácsom, hogy szájon kell verni az ilyen gonosz
zaklatókat, illetve, információt kell gyűjteni róluk és le kell
leplezni a disznó mivoltukat, az ő érdekükben is, nem hogy még mi
maradnánk mocsokban és megbélyegezve az ők sötétségük miatt. Csak
nyugodtan kontrázzon be neki és el fog tűnni. Még Gerle Éva is kussol
most és sunnyogva reméli, hogy megússza az ügyészségi vizsgálatot, mert
az ostoba még rendőrségi feljelentést is tett, amire mi feljelentettük
őt és a bűnszövetségeseit az ügyészségen, aminek a következtében most
ellenük folyik vizsgálat több rend béli zaklatás címen.

Nem kell az agresszorok előtt meghátrálni, mert ha provokálnak az annak
a jele, hogy annak, aki nem bántotta sem őket, sem mást,
karma-oldáscéljából keresztül kell menni egy ilyen bátorsági tűzpróbán.

Barátsággal: Kozma Szilárd

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Üdv!

Sajnos nekem is van tapasztalatom ezzel a hölgyikével.

Szintén ugyanazokat tapasztalom, amiket már fentebb leírtak.

A személy egyéb nevei, amiket használ az interneten: Fehér Viktória, Timea Wilheim, Childao Turebesa, Kim Yoo-ra, Veronika Hompo, Hungaryan

Jó lenne most már lépni valamit ez ügyben, és kiköttetni a hölgyike internetjét, és a pszichiátriára küldeni.
Nem tudom, hogy hol vannak ennek a szülei ilyenkor. Ilyet egy érett, felnőtt nő nem csinál, ráadásul nem a nap 24 órájában. Mert ha valahonnan kitiltják, meg máshova, és ott osztja az észt.

Tény, hogy a 15 éves internetes pályafutásom alatt még nem találkoztam ilyennel, de még csak ilyesmivel sem.
Kíváncsi lennék, hogy milyen életkörülmények vezettek ahhoz, hogy valaki ilyeneket csináljon.

Az is furcsa, hogy több személyiséggel rendelkezik. Ezért létrehoz az interneten több karaktert, és ha ő kevésnek érzi magát egy fórumon vagy bárhol az interneten (netán egy Youtube-videó alatt) akkor mindig jön a másik karakter és segíti őt, aki persze ugyanaz a személy, hiszen az írásjegyei ugyanazok.

Jelenleg is jelen vannak Facebookon a fent felsorolt nevekből valamennyi. Szinte ugyanaz az FB profil stílusa, ugyanolyan témájú a képe, és szintén minden ugyanúgy megegyezik, úgyhogy biztosan egy személyről van szó.

Ez már röhejes! 4 évre visszamenőleg találni ezeken a neveken olyan anyagokat az interneten (konkrétan Facebookon), ahol szintén romboló jelleggel vannak jelen.

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Kedves Mester!

Köszönjük az információkat,

ez a személy valóban veszélyes, ha ugyanazt az agresszív, több személyiségű támadó- tehát bántalmazási játékot űzi az interneten mint Nádia, akinek nagy szerencséje, hogy velem abba hagyta a cicaharcát, mert minden anyagot előkészítettem a csíkszeredai bíróságra, csak a vádiratot kellett volna még hivatalos fordítóval lefordíttatni és közjegyzőnél hitelesíttetni. Aztán, amikor ezeknek az árát megérdeklődtem, azt gondoltam, hogy ennyit nem ér meg ez a tévelygő ember!
Egyébként a két évvel ezelőtt a teljes gazdasági tönkretételünk tervével rám támadó, Terminátor Domina, áliász Gerle Éva is ugyanezt csinálja, de neki legalább húsz álneve és tíz fészbuk profilja van, és amikor az ön szövegét olvastam, azt képzeltem, hogy ez ugyanaz a személy, de nem, mivel az alter-egok nevei nem találnak.

Következésképpen ezt az állatvédő szentet is eltartja valaki, feltehetően az anyja, vagy az apja, akárcsak Gerle Évát és ennek köszönhetően engedhetik meg maguknak, hogy egész nap az interneten lógva, mások kárára szórakozzanak.

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Emotional Competency – Tyranny (Hitler, Nazis, Joy of Satan members, V. Hompo, Mad Max etc)

Emotional Competency – Tyranny.

Tyranny
Abusing Power

Whether it’s a pushy person, a control freak, a bully, or an outright tyrant, the problem is the same: their goals are always more important than yours. A difficult, pushy person has gone too far again. They are bossing you around, acting selfish and self-important, threatening you, making demands, barking orders, and abusing their power. Control freaks, imperative people, and tyrants exercise power in a harsh, cruel, or destructive manner. They are oppressive, harsh, arbitrary people who make life difficult for too many of us. They are annoyinginconsiderate, and demeaning. What are they thinking? How can we respond constructively?

Caution: Control-oriented people as described here expect to control the people and events around them. Exposing or challenging their tactics could provoke their anger and result in severe and possibly dangerous retaliation. Expect to be a target of their backlash. Protect yourself and others who could become targets before challenging a control-oriented person.

Definitions

  1. Absolute rule,
  2. Abusing power,
  3. Selfish power,
  4. Unmitigated power,
  5. Unrestrained exercise of power; abuse of authority

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Difficult people, control freaks, imperative people, and bullies push us around during our day-to-day encounters. They go out of their way to turn every encounter into a dominance contest and often insist on getting the last word. They insist you do it their way, dominating so many trivial issues as well as the more important ones. Going out to dinner with a control freak can easily become an ordeal. Choosing the restaurant, deciding where to sit, what to order, what fork to use, how much to tip, how long to stay, who pays, how to pay, and what to do next all has to be done their way. Tyrants, dictators, despots, autocrats, authoritarians, imperialists, fascists, Czars, Nazis, and monarchs practice their tyranny, totalitarianism, absolute rule, and domination on a larger and more destructive scale.

Tyranny leads to oppression, the sustained humiliation of a group of people. The oppressed people are suppressed, limited, or controlled by unjust use of force or authority.

A Hierarchy of Tyrants:

Tyranny can creep into our behavior to a greater or lesser degree. Here are some categories, arranged in increasing degrees of dominance and disregard for others.

Cause / Deficiency Behavior
Low Self-esteem Fragile high self esteem drives these people to act superior to disguise their inferior feelings. Controlling others is one manifestation of their need to act superior.
Healthy Self-esteem This is the desired condition. True leaders act from healthy high esteem.
Egotism Egotists are self-centered. They have been seduced by their first-person viewpoint. It’s all about them; they are motivated only by their own self-interests. They lack empathy for others. They are controlling because only their needs matter.
Narcissism Narcissists have a grandiose sense of self-importance. They exaggerate their achievements and expect to be recognized as superior, even when their accomplishments are ordinary. They fantasize attaining unlimited success or power. They believe they are special and require excessive admiration. They lack empathy and exploit others to achieve their own ends. They often envy others or believe others envy them. They are controlling because only they matter.
Psychopath Psychopaths are anti-social. They totally disregard the rights of others. They feel little or no remorse for the harm they cause others. They blame the victim and lack empathy. They are deceitful, aggressive, tough minded, glib, superficial, exploitative, irresponsible, and impulsive. Yet they may display a superficial charm. They are controlling because others don’t matter.

Leadership and Tyranny:

A superficial analysis may show that leaders and tyrants share many characteristics. Tyrants often appear at first as strong and effective leaders. Perhaps this explains why so many tyrants attain leadership positions. This chart can help us discern the differences and avoid the costly mistake of granting unchecked positional power to a tyrant.

Leaders Tyrants
Visionary; holds a clear, compelling, well thought-out, and constructive vision for the future. Focused while maintaining broad perspective. Visionary, but fixated on a narrow view. Narrowly focused.
Determined; they persistently pursue their goal and are undaunted by obstacles and setbacks. Relentless, tenacious, unyielding, rigid, close-minded, dogmatic, and stubborn.
Influential; communicates passionately to engage people. Influential, charismatic, captivating, engaging.
Passionate; remains committed and focused on the goal with heart and soul. Obsessed; the goal is all that matters. It must be achieved at all costs.
Increase trust. Followers are intrinsically motivated and provide enduring support. Increase fear. Followers are extrinsically motivated and support ends when the coercion ends. Often resentment endures.
Enthusiastic. Zealot.
Connected with others. Separate from others. Isolated, alone and apart.
Empathy for others. Humble. Apathy for others. Arrogant.
Healthy self-esteem. Accurate and realistic self-appraisal. Solicits and accepts feedback and criticism. Low, or fragile-high self-esteem. Egotism, narcissism, or even psychopathic. Inaccurate and Unrealistic self-appraisal. Avoids and rejects criticism and all but overwhelmingly positive feedback.
Primarily concerned for the cause, the organization, and the people being lead. Concerned only for the self.
Broadly and ethically principled. Fair and generous. Unprincipled or narrowly principled. Selfish.
Responsible. Irresponsible.
Internal Locus of Control External Locus of Control.
Consistent, reliable, logical, authentic, well adjusted, and emotionally stable. Volatile, whacky, irritable.
Realistic. Optimistic.
Listens and dialogues. Monologs, lectures, preaches and engages in tirades.
Respects reciprocity and symmetry. Strongly asymmetrical.
Open, communicative. Secretive.
Concerned with substance. Concerned with image.
Evidence based. Dominance based.
Considerate Invasive, intrusive, and obnoxious.
High, relevant, consistent, and attainable performance standards. Perfectionist, demanding, inconsistent.
Provides helpful and balanced feedback. Critical and demanding.
Benjamin Franklin, Catherine the Great, George Washington, Thomas Jefferson, Mahatma Gandhi, Winston Churchill, Franklin D. Roosevelt, Nelson Mandela, Martin Luther King Jr. Adolf Hitler, Pol Pot, Joseph Stalin, Saddam Hussein, Mao Tse Tung, Idi Amin Dada, Slobodan Milosevic

Tyranny is no substitute for leadership and should never be confused with leadership.

Healthy Control

It is certainly important for us to control ourselves and many aspects of our lives. Self-control is an important attribute of maturity, and an essential component of relatedness. Control is an essential element of responsibility. Loss of control leads to anxietyunhappinessangerresentment, stress, feeling helpless, and even depression. Abdicating control, acting powerless, and playing the victim, is irresponsible. But keep in mind that our freedom ends where other’s begins. Balance control with the rights and needs of others and respect for others.

Control goes beyond Autonomy and Competence

Autonomy—responsible free choice—is a basic human need. But control goes beyond autonomy because it goes beyond what is reasonable or necessary and ignores the needs and freedoms of other people. Control is autonomy gone awry because it is unmitigated by relatedness. Control ignores the no-trespassing sign that autonomy respects.

Competence—successfully meeting an optimum challenge—is also a basic human need that is similar to but not the same as control. You can reasonably ask: How can I succeed at a task if I can’t control the activities required for the task? Again the distinction is the consideration given to the rights of others.

Out of Balance:

Why do they act so bossy? What are control freaks and other bullies thinking? They have several perceptions and beliefs out of balance.

Reducing Anxiety:

The mistaken belief that what I can control can’t hurt me drives the behavior of many control freaks. Others are driven by the fear that they will lose control, or at least needed autonomy, altogether. Their anxiety results from vulnerabilities that the control freak tries to eliminate by controlling every aspect of the environment and the people in it. They try to control every threat. They lose track of what they can change and what they cannot. They chose an ineffective approach to coping with their anxiety. There is certainly enough to worry about: the ambitious boss-under-pressure worries the work won’t get done, envious co-workers worry you’ll get the promotion instead of them, jealous adults worry about their partners; scarcity leads to resource contention, stature-conscious, resentful, or caring but inept parents worry about the kids; and tormented, willful, or confused kids worry about the parents and each other. It must be exhausting.

Uncontrollable adverse events often lead to learned helplessness and stress. Exerting control learned prevents helplessness, unless you try to control the uncontrollable or change the unchangeable.

Tyrants reduce their own fear by removing anyone who poses a threat.

Getting it Right:

An obsession with getting it right—when driven by the fear of failure—can result in controlling behavior. Perhaps the control freak does have an important vision worth achieving. Perhaps the goals are worth working hard toward. Perhaps obsessive attention to detail is the best way to get the all-important result. Perhaps they have an outsized but narrow and rigid sense of duty. They may not see other options for solving problems and getting things done. They may be trapped by their own set of rigid but ill-founded rules. Perhaps the control freak just cares more than you do about the goal. They may see the goal as much more important than the relationship, and they don’t see how to preserve both. Perhaps the enthusiast has crossed the line and become the zealot. The control freak is deathly afraid of failure, and they don’t trust anyone else to get it right.

To placate your micromanaging boss try to establish a better working relationship, demonstrate your interest, concern, dedication, knowledge, and competency; keep the boss informed, request more autonomy. Put the boss at ease, address his fears, work to understand the pressures he faces and his point of view, and he may allow you the space you need to contribute your best.

Impatience:

Impatience—the fear of running late—can stimulate controlling behavior. Often impatient people usurp control in an attempt to speed events along and get more done. This quick-fix rarely works. As the signs say “The hurrier I go the behinder I get,” and “Look before you leap.”

Doing as a substitute for Being:

I make up for my pathetic being with more and more doing. I have a relentless sense of duty; I cannot say no. If I do enough my value will become obvious, even to me.

Contingent Self-esteem:

The biggest secret is that I’m not as good as I appear to be. My image has to be controlled at all cost. Because I feel inferior, I have to act superior. My biggest fear is that someone will discover I’m a wimp. The only opinion I have of myself is the opinion others have of me. How I feel depends entirely on what you think of me. I depend desperately on your approval to establish and maintain my self-worth. I work full time to cover up my vulnerability. I crave your affirmation and approval. I must control or even humiliate you so you don’t humiliate me.

These people don’t understand that their self-worth and dignity is intrinsic and is not provided by others. Also, stature is only achieved on an absolute scale, and is not evaluated in comparison to others.

First Person-Viewpoint:

We all view the world from our unique first-person viewpoint. But if other viewpoints can’t be comprehended, or this viewpoint is unmitigated by healthy relationships with others, or feeling empathy, it becomes disconnected, uncaring, unchecked, fixated, and destructive. This is the root of egotism. The egotist forgets that his freedom ends where other’s freedom begins. The belief (or fear) that “no one can get the job done as well as I can” or “if you want it done right, do it yourself” drives many control freaks to interfere, bosses to micro-manage, and poor leaders to overreach. Along with their first-person viewpoint, a fear of failure drives them to control every aspect of their world as they attempt to ensure success and reduce their anxiety. In any case the control freak is preserving their own interests at the expense of other’s. Children are born believing they are the center of the universe; tyrants never outgrow this belief.

Mistrusting Others

The control freak may simply mistrust others. There can be several causes for this including past betrayals, poor  relationships, or poor communication or delegation skills. They may criticize other’s work and find it unacceptable. The control freak believes that since others can’t be trusted to get the job done, there is no alternative to doing it yourself.

To work with such an untrusting control freak it may be helpful to gain their trust carefully and gradually over time.

Controlling Resources:

Control freaks may hold the mistaken belief that the person with the most toys wins.

Unaware:

Perhaps the control freak just does not know any better and is unaware of more constructive and effective approaches to achieving goals. Perhaps abuse is all they have ever known. Perhaps the only approach they ever learned for dealing with people is to abuse them. Perhaps their only role models were other control freaks. Perhaps you can have compassion for their ignorance and help them learn better approaches to building relationships.

Hierarchies:

Organizations are typically organized as hierarchies, with several people reporting to one boss. While this is a common and often effective organization structure, it is no excuse for an abusive boss, and it does not diminish the value of any of the humans in the organization, regardless of their position the formal hierarchy. Carefully designed organizations put in place mechanisms, such as upward feedback, anonymous reporting, and ombudsmen, to prevent or provide early warning of abuse.

Having a Bad Day:

When people are under unusual stress they may react by seizing control. Perhaps a generally reasonable person has just been stuck in traffic, had a fight with their spouse, got bad news from the doctor, learned they are about to lose their job, or bounced a check. They may react to this stress by being uncharacteristically difficult and controlling for some period of time. If a generally reasonable person is acting unreasonable today, then perhaps you can wait for their stress to pass and they will return to their more reasonable selves. A good person in bad circumstances deserves your compassion, not your provocation.

Responding to Tyrants:

We can choose how we respond to tyrants. There are alternatives to oppression.

Overcome our Fear:

Tyrants exploit our primal fears and we typically cower from them. We are seduced by their influence and succumb to their threats as we are easily blinded by fearanxietyshamehate, or guilt. We yield to their tantrums. Fear can easily lead to primal thinking, tunnel vision, and panic. But courage can overcome our fears and with careful and creative planning we can confront the tyrant.

Endure and Survive:

Slaves endured the oppression and humiliation of slavery for many years. It was not acceptance, but merely survival until they could work toward better treatment. Tyrants often come and go, perhaps you can wait this one out.

Understand their Point of View:

Perhaps the tyrant really does have it right. Work to adopt his point of view and understand where he is “coming from”, what problems he is facing, and what he is trying to accomplish. See if this helps to make his actions and motives more clear. Even tyrants deserve our empathy. Perhaps adopting his viewpoint will allow you to see alternative solutions, or at least cope better.

Disengage:

If you don’t like it, change it. If you can’t change it, leave. Acknowledge the oppression, understand the tyrant, consider your alternatives, and choose your battles carefully. Decide what you choose to change and what you choose to avoid. If this is just not a situation where you have the strength, interest, resources, or will to change now, you may decide to disengage and live to fight another day. If your boss is a tyrant arrange for a reassignment or leave the organization.

Tower, Don’t Cower:

Although the typical reaction is to cower in response to the tyrant’s threats, there is a more elevated and enlightened viewpoint. If we recognize the many fallacies tyrants rely on, and recognize tyrants as the lonely and childish school-yard bullies they are we can avoid being controlled by them. Spoiled brats do not deserve the attention they demand. Uncover, dispel, and shatter the myth. This viewpoint recognizes these powerful truths:

Dignity is intrinsic to every human. It does not have to be earned, it cannot be granted, and it cannot be taken away. The tyrant can neither strip you of your dignity nor can he provide you with dignity. We all share a long list of intrinsic similarities. You remain a worthy human being regardless of what the tyrant does. It is your own choice, your own asset, do not squander it. The oppressed are no less worthy than the powerful.

The tyrant’s freedom ends where yours begins. When the tyrant’s will infringes on your autonomy, a negotiation is required to resolve the conflict. The situation is symmetrical, you each have rights,boundaries, and limits. Seek shared values to provide principles that can help transcend or decide conflictthe. Create alternatives that eliminate the conflict and make it unnecessary. Identify trespass, make it visible, and do not tolerate it.

First person viewpoint is the fundamental asymmetry of humanity. The tyrant is seduced by his own narrow viewpoint. He considers only what he sees and he experiences that clearly, uniquely, and powerfully. His point of view is not moderated by healthy and respectful relationships with people who have alternative viewpoints. Perhaps he is unaware, or intolerant of diverse or conflicting viewpoints. He may fear skepticism and inquiry. He does not welcome criticism or differing points of view. He may not even be aware of any alternative viewpoints. Perhaps he is uncomfortable with complexity. But his is only one out of the six-billion valid viewpoints on this planet. Your own point of view is equally valid. Find a forum, express your views, and begin the dialogue. The storyteller provides only one viewpoint—it is inherently selective and biased. Go tell your story—it is equally valid and important.

Hate can only be sustained by cognitive error. The tyrant works to control or eliminate something or someone he sees as the obstacle to his goals. He has named the evil other, he hates it, and it must be destroyed. But choosing to hate is an ineffective shortcut that avoids the hard work of analyzing the problem in depth. Hating attributes blame incorrectly; it misallocates right and wrong. To defuse the hate, assess the situation from another perspective, analyze the problem in more depth, identify the real causes, eliminate the errors in thinking, and move forward with an effective solution.

Wanted! for Murder, for Kidnapping, for Theft and for ArsonTyranny is dishonorable. History judges tyrants harshly. Hitler and his new wife, Eva Braun, committed suicide in his underground bunker in Berlin in the final days of World War II. Joseph Stalin’s crash programs of industrialization and collectivization in the 1930s, along with his ongoing campaigns of political repression, are estimated to have cost the lives of millions of people. Saddam Hussein was convicted of charges related to the executions of 148 Iraqi Shiites suspected of planning an assassination attempt against him, and was sentenced to death by hanging. Saddam was executed on December 30, 2006. Many of Mao Tse Tung’s policies and socio-political programs such as the Great Leap Forward and the Cultural Revolution are blamed by critics for causing severe damage to the culture, society, economy, and foreign relations of China, as well as an estimated 40 million or more lost lives. Their glory is short lived, their disgrace lasts forever. It won’t be long before the tide turns against the tyrant.

Might does not make right. Quite the opposite is true; when evidence is available then influence alone can make the point and change behavior without having to rely on coercion. If your views are correct, they do not need an aggressive defense; if they are incorrect they do not deserve it. If Pepsi really was better than Coke, there would be no need to spend $ Billions on advertisements claiming it is better. If President Richard Nixon believed he was the better candidate, then why was the Watergate break-in necessary? If Catholic priests did not molest children, then the Vatican would not have written a secret document, the Crimen sollicitationis, directing the use of pontifical secrecy to cover up the cases. Beginning in 1950, Senator Joseph McCarthy became noted for making unsubstantiated claims that there were large numbers of Communists and Soviet spies and sympathizers inside the United States government. It is difficult to estimate the number of victims of his false accusations. The number imprisoned is in the hundreds, and some ten or twelve thousand lost their jobs. Ultimately, his tactics led to his being discredited and censured by the United States Senate. Because their views go unchallenged, powerful self-centered people often get it very wrong. If the tyrant really does have a better idea, let that idea gain acceptance on its own merits. Good ideas speak for themselves. The need to use force is evidence of a weak idea.

Humor provides a new perspective. Political Satire, Political Cartoons, Doonesbury, Dilbert, the Daily Show, and Saturday Night Live all work to balance power by making fun of it. The nursery rhyme “Rock-a-by Baby” may have been a surreptitious way of singing dissent with the English civil war. Be very careful when using humor to disarm power. Respond in a friendly but disarming way that makes light of the tyrant’s abusive tactics. Highlight the fallacies in the tyrant’s goals and tactics, but carefully avoid humiliating the tyrant.

The best leaders are the best servants. Leadership is not about controlling people; it’s about caring for people and being a useful resource for people. The best leaders help people work together and do their best to achieve an important goal. Their actions focus on accomplishing as a team much more than any one person could accomplish alone. Leadership is about helping people attain the goal, not about aggrandizing the leader. Tyrants don’t serve and servants don’t control. Tyrants are not leaders, and any contrary myths need to be exposed as false.

Scapegoats are chosen as convenient proxies. They are easy targets chosen to accept blame, displace responsibility for problems from where it truly belongs, and to distract attention from the actual problems. Tyrants identify scapegoats to distract attention from their own misdeeds. The scapegoat is not the problem, don’t be distracted, look elsewhere for the real cause. Analyze cause and effect more carefully, avoid the fallacy of disproportionate responsibility, determine more accurately where responsibly actually belongs. Draw attention away from the scapegoat and toward the real problem.

Courage can overcome fear. The tyrant uses fear to keep us from seeing alternatives. In the face of his intimidation we typically freeze, flee, become anger locked, or submit to his demands. But if we can focus, summon our courage, relax, comprehend the situation, and develop alternatives, we can create options for moving forward constructively. On December 1, 1955, Rosa ParksExternal Link became famous for refusing to obey bus driverThe Unknown Rebel James Blake’s order that she give up her seat. This action of civil disobedience started the Montgomery Bus Boycott, which is one of the largest movements against racial segregation. In addition, this launched Martin Luther King, Jr., who was involved with the boycott, to a prominent position among his people and in the civil rights movement. She has had a lasting legacy worldwide.

During the Tiananmen Square protests of 1989External Link an unarmed man stood in the center of the street, halting the tanks’ progress. He reportedly asked, “Why are you here? You have caused nothing but misery.” As the tank driver attempted to go around him, the “tank man” moved into the tank’s path. He continued to stand defiantly in front of the tanks for some time, then climbed up onto the turret of the lead tank to speak to the soldiers inside. After returning to his position blocking the tanks, the man was pulled aside by onlookers who perhaps feared he would be shot or run over. Time Magazine dubbed him “The Unknown Rebel” and later named him one of the 100 most influential people of the 20th century. Tyrants are often unprepared for truly courageous and well-planned responses.

Human needs are simple and largely non-material. Although autonomy is a human need, steak for dinner is not. In choosing to endure tyrant’s abuse you may be choosing to buy a steak dinner at the cost of your autonomy. This is usually a bad deal. Choose simplicity over oppression.

There are always alternatives. Reject the obvious alternatives, create new options, and find another way. Innovation creates opportunities. Dialogue creates solutions that other forms of communication jealously hide. If you can’t think of alternatives and feel there is no way out then talk to more people and generate more ideas.

Mohandas K. GandhiNo one is powerless.  We each have our own sources of power. The boss depends on the secretary, the doctor depends on nurses and patients, and the manager depends on the workers. Mahatma GandhiExternal Linkwas the skinny little brown man who summoned the power to free India from British colonial rule. Find your source of strength and apply it to the problem at hand. Don’t play the victim, you always have choices. Speak up and speak out about what you want and expect from the relationship. End the trespassing and assert your right to dignity, respect, and freedom. Describe the actual, unfair, and unwanted asymmetry of the relationship, how it makes you feel, why it is unfair, and then describe the fair and symmetrical relationship you expect. Say what you mean, but don’t be mean. Don’t insult, humiliate, or threaten the control freak. Confront the control freak, and plan how to expose and disarm the tyrant.

Helplessness can be learned and unlearned. Oppression teaches you to become passive and stop trying to help yourself. But you can reassess your options and decide to take action to end the oppression.

Everyone, even the tyrant, is vulnerable. Study the tyrant to find out his weaknesses. Balance the power. Apply your strength where he is most weak. Calmly describe how natural forces resisting the tyrant will eventually defeat his efforts.

It is possible to speak truth to power. Don’t be distracted or intimidated by the tyrant’s positional power, reputation, physical appearance; wincing, bellowing, or rolling eyes; physical surroundings, or other attempts to emphasize a disparity in power and importance. Do not tolerate ego rants. Do your homework, get the facts right, and present your case clearly, calmly, and persuasively. You can challenge an authority by respectfully asking: “How do you know?”, “Why do you say what you say?”, “What is the evidence to support your position?”, and “Who disagrees with you?”

Rana HusseiniExternal Link spoke truth to power and exposed the shame of Jordan when she unveiled the common but unspoken crime of honor killingsExternal Link there. Honor killings refer to the murder by family members of a woman who is raped or is said to have participated in illicit sexual activity. The mere perception that a woman has behaved in a way that is considered as dishonoring her family is sufficient to trigger an attack on her life. Across the globe, women who are beaten, brutalized, and raped can expect police, prosecutors, and judges to humiliate victims, fail to investigate cases, and dismiss charges. Honor killings accounted for one-third of the murders of women in Jordan in 1999. She wrote a series of reports on the killings and launched a campaign to stop them. As a result, she has been threatened and accused of being anti-Islam, antifamily, and anti-Jordan. Yet, Queen NoorExternal Link took up the cause, and later, the newly ascended King Hassan cited the need for protection of women in his opening address to parliament. The conspiracy of silence has been forever broken thanks to this courageous young journalist who risks her life in the firm belief that exposing the truth about honor killings and other forms of violence against women is the first step to stopping them.

The tools of influence are symmetrical. The techniques the powerful use to influence the oppressed can also be adapted by the oppressed to influence the powerful.

Extremists discount, dismiss, distort, dispute, or deflect important evidence. But facts are stubborn. As the facts become more widely known and understood, the unreasonableness of the tyrant’s position becomes more clear to more people. His support eventually dwindles as more people recognize the emperor has no clothes.External Link

There is tremendous power in alliances. Striking Members of the International Lady Garment Workers Union (Ilgwu) Picket on 7th Ave.None of us are as smart or powerful as all of us. As the scope of the tyrant’s impact increases, as more people suffer from his abuse, the more people there are to pool their resources and energy in overcoming his grip. Find the people who are suffering from the tyrant’s grip, recognize the common problem you are facing, and find a way to band together and effect positive change. India’s independence movement, labor unions, the women’s suffrage movement, the civil rights movement, and the anti-apartheid cause all provide prominent examples of oppressed people working together to overcome powerful forces, abuse, and tyranny.

You can choose your battles. You can decide when to ignore, yield to, appease, or accommodate the control-freak’s requests. You can also decide when to confront the unreasonable behavior and insist on change. Keep an effective strategy in mind to help you choose your battles carefully. With careful preparation, you can always walk away.

Government exists only to serve and benefit the governed. The United Nation’s Universal Declaration of Human Rights clearly states: “The will of the people shall be the basis of the authority of government; this will shall be expressed in periodic and genuine elections which shall be by universal and equal suffrage and shall be held by secret vote or by equivalent free voting procedures”. Tyrants often forget this and erroneously believe the purpose of government is to benefit only themselves. Insist on a government that represents and serves the people.

Privilege and power are distinct from talent. A rich, powerful person may not be very bright while a poor person might be very bright, hard working, creative, and talented. Don’t be mislead by image, boasting, intimidation, pedigree, and posturing. Demonstrate leadership through hard work, not privilege. Apply your talents regardless of your present social position. Seek stature, not status.Traffic, 405 North, Los Angeles, CA

There are paths of progress other than growth.  Flowers develop by unfolding their potential, not by becoming the biggest flower. Bigger is not always better. There are important alternatives, including: peace of mind, integrity, giving and gaining the respect of others, tranquility, clean air, clean water, the beauty of nature, a healthy environment to enjoy now and sustain for the future, family, friendships, community, safety, stability, trust, leisure time, meaningful work, authentic experiences,reciprocity, good health, reduced stress, ongoing education, fun, enjoyment of the arts, transcendence, and making significant contributions that help others. Tyrants often ignore or diminish the value of these genuine alternatives to growth, expansion, and conquest. Challenge the assumptions that growth is good and inevitable. Pursue genuine progress, and don’t be seduced by the idea that growth represents progress. Reject the insatiable tyranny of more.

We are all connected. We all rely on others—locally and globally—for needed resources such as food, water, health care, energy, labor, land, and education. The tyrant depends on the oppressed.

Tyranny is childish. Tyrants lack self-control, sound judgment, refined character, respectwisdom, and transcendent purpose. Tyranny is a tragically unleashed version of a child’s selfish tantrum. It is ineffective; tyranny has a clear history of tragedy and failure. In retrospect it often looks preposterous. We can learn to recognize it, call attention to it, act as responsible grownups, and not tolerate it. Maturity is about using wisdom to achieve constructive results. Tyrants lack the wisdom of: understanding the intrinsic similarities we all share, interconnections, relatednesscompassionrespect, accurate history, symmetryinquiry,humility, and responsibilityAdults don’t tolerate tantrums, there is no reason to tolerate tyranny.

Oppression constrains the tyrant. Sustaining oppression requires a narrow worldview based on false beliefs. The false belief that women are not smart enough to vote, the false belief that slaves are subhuman, the false belief that Jews are to blame for the problems of Nazi Germany, and the false belief that the poor are stupid were each essential to maintaining the power of the tyrant and sustaining the oppression. When these false beliefs are dismissed and corrected, we gain a more accurate understanding of our world and we all benefit. Expose the lie and strengthen the community.

Sunlight is the best disinfectant. The most credible and respected organizations operate in an open atmosphere. Their operations and decisions are transparent and can be easily examined by interested people inside and outside the organization. Organizations that are well run and are responsible to the public not only accept criticism and suggestions, but embrace them. If questions from constituents, the public, or the media make leaders or other responsible parties become uncomfortable, evasive, or disingenuous, the questions are usually valid and the answers are not. People who feel uncomfortable under the bright light of scrutiny and criticism often have something to hide. Shine the light on tyranny to purify it.

Tyrants are lonely, afraid, insecure, and human. They deserve our compassion, even as we withhold our obedience and submission. The many causes of tyranny, described at the beginning of this page, show that tyrants are often driven by deficiencies, inadequacy, loneliness, or fear. Tyrants often see themselves as the victim. Adolf Hitler titled his autobiography “Mein Kampf”, “My Struggle”. Perhaps if they can connect in authentic relationships with caring people, their pain can be soothed, and their behaviors can improve. Even the nastiest tyrants are only human. Understand the similarities you share with them. Connect with them on a human level. Pity the poor tyrant. Have you hugged a tyrant today?

The Land of Oz:

In the popular movie “The Wizard of Oz” Dorothy demonstrates constructive responses to tyranny.  The movie is such a good allegory for coping with tyranny you might be tempted to claim “everything I need to know about tyranny I learned in the land of Oz.” Here is a brief summary:

  • Everyone experiences fear, including fear of humiliation.
  • Courage can overcome fear.
  • We are responsible for our own choices.
  • We all have sources of power we can draw on.
  • Authentic self-confidence increases our power.
  • Inquiry, evidence, and argument are powerful tools for uncovering what is.
  • Alliances can increase our power.
  • We each have our own important stories to tell.
  • Tyrants use the trappings of power to enhance their image.
  • Tyrants suppress and manipulate opponents by exploiting their fears.
  • We often imagerespond to  before we respond to substance.
  • Image is not substance.
  • You can speak truth to power.
  • Tyrants respond differently to compassion than they do to threats, dominance, or humiliation.
  • The Wizard is only human.
  • All things must pass; even tyranny is impermanent.

Quotations:

  • “Power tends to corrupt, and absolute power corrupts absolutely. Great men are almost always bad men.” ~  Lord ActonExternal Link
  • “He that would govern others, first should be the master of himself.” ~ Philip MassingerExternal Link
  • “Humanity is not divisive, but inclusive.” ~ Neriah Lothamer
  • “No one can take advantage of you without your permission.” ~ Eleanor RooseveltExternal Link
  • “We must all hang together, or most assuredly we shall all hang separately.” ~ Benjamin FranklinExternal Link
  • “Pity the tyrant.” ~ Hans Otto Storm
  • “First they ignore you, then they laugh at you, then they fight you, then you win.” ~ Mahatma GandhiExternal Link
  • “When those in power are forced into a process of deliberation, then and only then will reason play its necessary central role.” ~ Al Gore
  • “Never feel overwhelmed when you are overwhelmed with evidence of injustice.” ~ Ralph Nader

References

The Control Freak, by Les Parrott

Imperative People: Those Who Must Be in Control, by Les Parrott

Dancing in the Shadow of Tyranny: An Activist’s Guide to Inner Disarmament, by Neriah Lothamer

Bullies, Tyrants, and Impossible People: How to Beat Them Without Joining Them, by Ronald M. Shapiro, Mark A. Jankowski, James Dale

When You Work for a Bully: Assessing Your Options and Taking Action, by Susan Futterman

Snakes in Suits: When Psychopaths Go to Work, , by Paul Babiak, Robert D. Hare

Humiliation and Assistance: Telling the Truth About Power, Telling a New Story, by Linda M. Hartling, Wellesley College

The United Nations Universal Declaration of Human Rights.

The 48 Laws of Power, by Robert Greene

How to Use Power Phrases to Say What You Mean, Mean What You Say, & Get What You Want, by Meryl Runion

Good to Great: Why Some Companies Make the Leap… and Others Don’t, by Jim Collins

Bridging the Class Divide: And Other Lessons for Grassroots Organizing, by Linda Stout

Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders DSM-IV-TR Fourth Edition, by the American Psychiatric Association.

The Assault on Reason, by Al Gore

The Wizard of Oz—When Dorothy courageously penetrates the wizard’s façade, they finally connect on an authentic human level and each gets the help they need.

Yertle the Turtle and Other Stories, by  Dr. Seuss

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Tyrants are lonely, afraid, insecure, and human. They deserve our compassion, even as we withhold our obedience and submission. The many causes of tyranny, described at the beginning of this page, show that tyrants are often driven by deficiencies, inadequacy, loneliness, or fear. Tyrants often see themselves as the victim. Adolf Hitler titled his autobiography “Mein Kampf”, “My Struggle”. Perhaps if they can connect in authentic relationships with caring people, their pain can be soothed, and their behaviors can improve. Even the nastiest tyrants are only human. Understand the similarities you share with them. Connect with them on a human level. Pity the poor tyrant. Have you hugged a tyrant today?”

Fuck that! Deserve OUR compassion? Screw them, let them all drop dead, they all are suffering in their insecure, lonely existences, and they deserve to suffer more than most abusive sub-human losers do simply because they are hateful, loathesome, nasty filth spreading their white-power hate to ignorant, uneducated kids and vulnerable people who are emotionally damaged or who have been recently hurt; people who are looking for a spiritual path and come across these bloodthirsty nazi fuckers who pretend to sympathize with them in order to suck them into their false world of bullshit satanism, their guise for nazism and hatred. Let these insecure assholes dig their holes and let those who realize what they really are send out the invites for the mass burials, and bring extra shovels. None of these shits deserve our compassion. There’s no room for these pitiful bullies any longer. Let them all squirm in their own shit knowing the world in on to their lies and the truth about what each and every one of them truly is.

You know who you are, insecure, weak little lonely worm. Crawl back into dirty little hole before your your new friend’s secret it outed to Joy of Satan. You’re not supposed to have Jewish friends, or friends with Jewish children, Jewish girlfriends with Jewish little girls… you hypocrite. Bully dozens of people, former friends, total strangers — stalk and harass people for years for their eating habits and now for their race, their religion or their sexual preference — and you, Veronika Hompo dare to parade your new pal, who has a Jewish daughter? After all you have done to others in the past year? Claiming it’s what satan wants? Wrong, bitch. He doesn’t want what you do, say or think at all. Your time is up, hypocritical, sick psychopath.

National Socialist Movement Implodes Amid Allegations of Satanism (2006 by Bigots_Suck (bigots_suck) Live Journal)

The following article (behind cut) is borrowed from the website of our friends at One People’s Project. Since this article was posted Bill White has started his own Nazi group, the American National Socialist Workers Party, and has appointed himself commander of this fledgling group, or has been appointed such by the sycophants who followed him in the wake of his exodus from the National Socialist Movement.

One of the websites for the ANSWP contains the following statement, which we think is hilarious. (It also is further evidence of the often bizarre world that is the white supremacist movement.):

“On July 18, 2006, 21 former state and unit leaders of the National Socialist Movement, along with 96 comrades, declared a break with Jeffrey Schoep and his National Socialist Movement, having cited him for numerous offenses against the party, not the least of which was his continued patronizing of convicted sex offenders, his own personal checkered history, and his 15-year lond relationship with the former Chairman, Cliff Herrington, who was married to a non-white woman and actively engaged in Satan worship – Satan worship which included sexual acts with young teenagers.”

The first issue of the ANSWP’s magazine, National Socialist, features a full-color photo of White, in all his pudgy glory, on the cover. (You can see it behind the cut.)

http://onepeoplesproject.com/site/index.php?option=com_content&task=view&id=995&Itemid=2

As you probably already know, the latest chapter in the Misadventures of Bill White is coming to a close. A guy who always swore off joining groups, he joined the National Socialist Movement (NSM) sometime in the spring of last year, and quickly made himself the center of NSM attention. Now we are talking about a group who has nothing but misfits and criminals among the leadership, let alone the ranks, including a convicted sex offender who was running the Indiana chapter. When Bill signed on, we just thought this was going to be too easy for us. Back in October, when the NSM sparked that riot in Toledo, we had a poll asking how long would it be before they went the way of all the other hate groups. 39.9% said a little more than three years if they’re lucky, 37% said less than a year, 11% said one year, while 3.7% and 3.5 said two and three years respectively. To those that gave them a little more than three years, you don’t know Bill White the way we know Bill White!

The recent infighting that led to the expulsion of Bill White from the NSM was something that came about courtesy of the antifa cabal that is One People’s Project, One People’s Radio, and Citizens Against Hate! All Tony Willow of CAH had to do is simply get hold of Hal Turner and tell him something a little unsettling about NSM, namely that the wife of Chairman Clifford Herrington is involved in Satanism, and that the p.o. box of her organization, the Joy of Satan is also the one that the NSM uses! Turner is Catholic, and every now and then claims Christian Identity as well, so this was a little too much for him. He gets into a argument with Bill, and Bill talks trash on him on [his website] Overthrow[.com], which also meant trashing Christian Identity. THAT meant pissing off people he didn’t mean to piss off, who responded by calling Bill out, which meant Bill had to trash THEM on Overthrow, and when the NSM tried to reign him in, he went after THEM, and the rest –and Bill – is history. In other words, we manipulated the living HELL out of these morons! We didn’t lie, we didn’t suggest anything illegal be done, facts were presented, and that was all it took. Citizens Against Hate has compiled all of this for your reading enjoyment, and all the NSM players are definitely keeping everything going, so we will keep having developments. One development that came out of this was a revelation: John Snyder, that Indiana State Leader we mentioned, has been allowed back into the NSM! That means Bill White was the least of their problems, and they will soon go back into the obscurity that they enjoyed before he went rally crazy. We so love summertime Nazi blues!
Citizens Against Hate

Developments continue to occur in this bizarre tale of witches and the NSM, and just a little while ago, Jeff Schoep, Commander of the National Socialist Movement, issued the following statements on the events as they occurred:

nsmworld@yahoogroups.com
From: “Commander NSM” < nsmcommander@hotmail.com >
Date: Sat, 08 Jul 2006 15:41:14 -0500
Subject: [nsmworld] Expulsion of disruptive element from NSM

Comrades,

NS greetings, as some of you know last night Chairman Herrington and I suspended Bill White from the NSM, asking him to reign in his disruptive behavior, cease attacks on various Religions, and other Pro-White Organizations. All NSM members are held to certain standards, and Bill was repeatedly breaking the rules of conduct, basically ignoring rules, and regulations set in place by the NSM. The suspension was meant to inforce those rules, and let Bill know that he could not simply engage in whatever destructive, antagonistic behavior he chose.

Instead of choosing to correct the disruptive behavior and lying, Bill chose to rebel against the NSM rules of conduct. In his rebellion of one, he goes on to level baseless attacks on my charachter, and others he wrongly feels were trying to oust him, and attempting fruitlessly to pull others down into the fray.

The truth of the matter is, Bill would not adhear to NSM rules and regulations. Instead of adjusting to discipline and taking the moral high ground Bill has demanded apologies, and made other demands.

The Party does not respond to demands, and did not respond to the demand that we purge Bill White from the Party by literally countless individuals and groups that warned us he would stab us in the back. I have always been one to give people a fair chance to prove themselves, and I was warned that Bill would stab us in the back the first time something didn’t go his way. His suspension was a test of his Loyalty, his actions after the suspension prove he is not Loyal to the NSM, its members, or its Leaders.

The end result is the expulsion of Bill White from the Party.

The NSM expects its members to be Loyal and trustworthy, without Loyalty or trust you have nothing, and are nothing. With that being said, I suggest everyone else gets back to work and focuses on the positive work of the NSM, and turn a blind eye to the rumour mill of disruption and antagonism.

Everything is a question mark these days with the NSM–but in a rather expected, yet comical move, Bill White claims to have resigned from the National Socialist Movement today. Citing the weakness of Jeff Schoep, being told what to print and what to remove, and an ongoing attack from Richard Brunson, April Braun Patterson, and, of all people, John Snyder to oust him, Bill stepped down and promised to go back to running Overthrow.com full time.

Instead of choosing to correct the disruptive behavior and lying, Bill chose to rebel against the NSM rules of conduct. In his rebellion of one, he goes on to level baseless attacks on my charachter, and others he wrongly feels were trying to oust him, and attempting fruitlessly to pull others down into the fray.

The truth of the matter is, Bill would not adhear to NSM rules and regulations. Instead of adjusting to discipline and taking the moral high ground Bill has demanded apologies, and made other demands.

The Party does not respond to demands, and did not respond to the demand that we purge Bill White from the Party by literally countless individuals and groups that warned us he would stab us in the back. I have always been one to give people a fair chance to prove themselves, and I was warned that Bill would stab us in the back the first time something didn’t go his way. His suspension was a test of his Loyalty, his actions after the suspension prove he is not Loyal to the NSM, its members, or its Leaders.

The end result is the expulsion of Bill White from the Party.

The NSM expects its members to be Loyal and trustworthy, without Loyalty or trust you have nothing, and are nothing. With that being said, I suggest everyone else gets back to work and focuses on the positive work of the NSM, and turn a blind eye to the rumour mill of disruption and antagonism.</blockquote>

Everything is a question mark these days with the NSM – but in a rather expected, yet comical move, Bill White claims to have resigned from the National Socialist Movement today. Citing the weakness of Jeff Schoep, being told what to print and what to remove, and an ongoing attack from Richard Brunson, April Braun Patterson, and, of all people, John Snyder to oust him, Bill stepped down and promised to go back to running Overthrow.com full time.

As we knew would happen, the Satanist news sent shock-waves through the NSM rank-and-file and has rancored many of the members who adhere to Christian Identity. Bill White’s harrangue on Christian Identity being “stupid” and only 10% of the believers being worthy of his friendship along with other remarks, certainly caused him to lose favor with many long-time members.

As Citizens Against Hate and One People’s Radio were the first to bring you the news of a connection between the National Socialist Movement and Satanism, we are happy to see that we have been hugely instrumental in causing the dissention and the resignation of the Spokesperson and other members.

The events, as they unfold, should provide us with a lot of entertainment – and the issue of Satanism and the Chairman is a long way from being dead. Stay tuned because it ain’t over till it’s over.

Someone anonymous pointed out that not all Satanist are nazis. There are many Satanists who oppose neo-nazis. Here’s a link to a page full of informative and educational articles that is well worth reading! Amongst the articles you’ll even find this National Socialist Movement tidbit:

“Even Clifford Herrington, husband of Joy of Satan founder Maxine Dietrich, once made a speech about how the U.S.A. should be home only to “white European Christians!” (Here’s an audio file containing a brief excerpt.) Herrington was chairman of the National Socialist Movement (NSM), which, according to the Anti-Defamation League, was “America’s Largest Neo-Nazi Group” as of June 2006. Only a month later, the NSM fell apart when Clifford Herrington’s connection to the Joy of Satan Ministries became public knowledge. (See Nazis Falling on the website of the Southern Poverty Law Center.) The most popular religion among neo-Nazis and other extremist White Nationalists, at least here in the U.S.A., is Christian Identity. For more about neo-Nazism’s natural affinity for the more intolerant forms of Christianity, see my separate article on Nazism and Christianity.”

http://theisticsatanism.com/politics/Nazi/

Has anyone seen the video of Hilter’s speech promoting Christianity? LMAO

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